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THE JOYS AND BENEFITS OF WRITING LONG HAND.....
I have 6 notebooks going at any given time. One for my neuroscience course, one for my morning pages, one for my business, one where I...
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Death and Grief and Children
I read this article today, it's powerful. https://www.theguardian.com/books/article/2024/jun/10/the-big-idea-why-we-need-to-put-death-o...
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Secondary Losses
When someone we love dies, the space left behind is achingly obvious. We search to make sense of their absence, to create new habits to...
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Family gatherings, celebrations and grieving.....
Holidays and family get togethers are hard when we are grieving. We feel the absence of our loved one acutely, wishing we could share...
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Tony and Me
My father died in 2011 and shortly after, Tony Bennett came to Denver. I saw tickets and thought, my dad LOVED Tony Bennett. I wanted to...
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On Suffering
I, like many, have a lot on my mind these days. Sometimes I brainstorm my questions of the world, get them all out of my head and onto...
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BARING OUR SOULS
I've just come off an incredible week in Brighton, working with Bryony Kimmings and 16 other artists. We danced, we asked questions of...
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The body remembers.....
MICHAEL FOWLER, doing one of his favorite things, playing the piano for guests at a party This time of year is always hard for me. We...
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ON BEING AN EMPATH AND USING METAPHOR FOR GROUNDING
I am an empath – someone who can sense and feel, very intuitively, what another person is feeling. This superpower may have come from a...
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A year on....
It’s been a year since Russia illegally and violently invaded Ukraine. Today, I light a candle and summon Courage and Victory. I light...
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Dancing Mobile
Part of processing the loss of a loved one is an accounting – not merely of money or goods, but of relationships. Our lives are filled...
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Sit still
I often encourage my clients to sit with their feelings, to welcome whatever comes up for them, let them be felt, and flow through. Our...
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Making a film no one wants to see
My thirteen year old nephew died of a drug overdose on my daughters ninth birthday in 2016. We had just moved to London, and were...
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A wardrobe full of lives past......
I’ve come back from the summer in the States, where I lived in the same two pairs of shorts the entire time, and switched up my top. Even...
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A Monster Calls
We want to be seen, to be heard. To know that our loss, our suffering, our LOVE MATTERS.
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